Mirror confessions

what do you see when you look in a mirror

the same person you saw many years ago

but you looked so different back then

are you afraid to look in a mirror these days

do you just glance quickly at your appearance

avoiding eye contact

how come we all like talking selfies

sharing and saving them

but we try and avoid the mirror

of course you can alter your selfies

make your skin tone look good

but there is no post processing in a mirror

what you see is what you get

no flattery or lies, its all you just as you are

its easier for guys to avoid mirrors

well at least those who do not wear makeup

I only look in the mirror to shave in the morning

my gaze firmly fixed on my stubble

not wanting to bump into

that bleary eyed person called me

occasionally I will dare to look into my eyes

something strange always happens

I question if its really me

or just my minds version of reality

it always feels uncomfortable  

then I step aside and the image is gone

but thankfully I am still there

I do not need a mirror to prove I am still alive

or to remind me how I look

I prefer to reflect on who I am in my mind

I wonder if bearded men suffer from mirror shyness

Is narcissism the new normal

John was born in 1935

in his teenage years he carried a small hand mirror

he took it everywhere he went

holding it at arms length to admire himself

he would invite other to look at his reflection

he was labelled socially awkward and narcissistic

but he kept on looking at his own image

John was eventually placed in an asylum

they took his mirror away for his own safety

he became clinically depressed and withdrawn

no photographs of John exist today

Sarah was born in 2004

she carries her cell phone everywhere

taking selfies to post on social media

she has thousands of snapchat friends

her entire life is devoted to three things

self refection

self promotion

self disclosure

she is considered to be a normal well balanced teenager

Sarah is popular and has lots of friends

she posts at least forty selfies a day

if she keeps this up all her life

there will be more than a million digital records of her face