Duck Apple Night

Its that time of year

Pumpkins carved

Homes decorated with spooky figures

Halloween costume parties

Children trick or treating

Bags of candy being handed out

My earliest memories of Halloween are very different

As a child growing up in northern England

There was no trick or treat back then

No constumes

We did not even call it Halloween

It was duck apple night

A large tub filled with water

Apples floating on the surface

We would kneel over the tub, hands behind our back

Trying to capture an apple with our teeth

It was an evening of family fun and we all got soaked

Duck apple or apple bobbing can be traced back to the the Roman invasion of Britain in 55BC

The Romans merged their religious celebrations with Celtic Britain

The apple tree, which was a Roman symbol of plenty (Pomona) was introduced in to Britain

The apple floating in water was used to see if an unmarried person was due to be married


The first person to bite in to the apple would be the next person to be married

Girls who ‘bobbed’ i.e bit in to a floating apple, would place the bitten apple under their pillow to dream of their future lover

The Journey

Sam

Its been a month on the road and in the air

We flew to London

Then flew to Milan

Drove to Tuscany

Met our Miami besties

Stayed at a Vineyard

Drove to Sienna

Took a train to Civitavecchia

Boarded a cruise ship

Sailed to Crete

Stopped in Greece

Explored Istanbul

Wandered around Sorento

Drove to Rome

Explored Rome

Said goodbye to our Miami besties

Flew to London

Drove to East Sussex

Had a whole week with the family

Saw my grandson in a play

Laughed a lot

Cried a little

Walked on Brighton Pier

Visited the home of King George IV

Ate fabulous meals

Drank fine wines

Drank warm beer in English pubs

Played games

Exchanged lots of hugs

Felt the family love

Drove to Heathrow

Now waiting to board a plane to DC

Its been an incredible journey

Made lots of memories

Took a lot of selfies

Probably gained a few pounds

Would do it all again

Its a dogs life

my name is Daisy

I live in an English farmhouse

we have a big garden

I often go outside to pee

I sleep a lot

my owners put food in my bowl

I slurp when I drink

I like tummy rubs

they take me on daily walks

they think they lead the way

but I am their leader

I pull them around

their arms get tired

when we get back I take a nap

usually on the couch

I like to steal socks

I might let go for a treat

they think I am trained

but its me who trained them

to give me a treat when I sit or lay down

if they go out and leave me

I take a long nap

when they come back

I wag my tail and jump on them

they are so grateful

that they give me more treats

who said its a dogs life

my life is great

better than most humans

Hygge (pronounced Hyoo.guh)

yesterday we played a game called hygge with the family

its not a game where you compete to win

its a deck of cards with interesting conversation starters

What dish do you make best?

who do you admire most?

if you had a spare room at home what would you use it for?

what two things would you grab if your house was on fire?

it was a lot of fun

I decided to find more out about the game origins

hygge is a Danish word that describes a contended mood evoked by comfort and conviviality

there is no direct English word for hygge

hygge has spread internationally

hygge was runner up in the 2016 word of the year in UK after Brexit

Mark Waking wrote “The Little Book of Hygge”

It describes the ten principles of the Hygge manifesto

Atmosphere

Presence

Pleasure

Equality

Gratitude

Harmony

Comfort

Truce

Togetherness

Shelter

a lot of my writing could be classified as hygge

especially those bringing warmth and cosiness in winter

welcome to Cheeky Monkey Hygge Poetry

Autumn in England

autumn has arrived in East Sussex

its cool and cloudy most days

it rains frequently

summer is over

a cup of tea with breakfast

looking out over the garden

fruit cropping is finished

summer vegetables all harvested

grass cutting is suspended until spring

leaves are starting to change color

days are getting shorter

it will soon be halloween

pumpkins are ready for carving

cosy evenings by an open fire

drinking warm English beer

telling tales on dark nights

making plans for the future

the seasons roll on

Day 11 – Veni Vidi but no Vici

Our ship docked at Civitavecchia outside Rome

We found our driver but the traffic was heavy due to the rail strike

We reached Rome late morning and dropped our bags at the AirBnB

We planned to conquer Rome on foot

Starting with the Spanish Steps

Unfortunately there were so many tourists it was hard to see any steps at all

Onward we marched towards the Trevi Fountain

Through a heaving sea of wall to wall tourists

We found the fountain under siege from selfie seeking tourists

There must have been ten thousand people around it

Our mission to conquer Rome was a total failure

We decided to return to the Air BnB, take a nap and then head out for a quiet dinner

Fortunately our dinner reservation was not in a touristy area

We had a fabulous meal to round off our our Italian adventure

The next morning we flew to London to spend time with our family

We reflected on the things we had learned during this memorable trip

The volume of tourists even in the shoulder season of October was astronomical

We are not sure if this is a post Covid phenomena or just the world population exploding

The second thing we reflected on was human conflict and wars

Its not a new thing as we learned the history of conflicts surrounding the ancient ruins we visited

Mankind has been waging war for thousands of years

Even with the lessons learned in history it still goes on today

Very sad

Other than that we had a truly fabulous vacation

Day 10 Naples

Sorrento

Our last port of call before the end of the cruise

We opted to skip Naples completely

Instead we took a ferry to Sorrento

Its a small ferry and packed to capacity

Its only a 45 minute ride but it rocked and bounced all the way

Spectacular views of the coastline

Sorrento is perched on the top of a cliff

No cable cars here so its a long walk up a winding road with plenty of stairs to climb

Eventually we reach the square in the middle of town

Its a cute place bustling with people but not overcrowded so its easy to walk around

We decided to explore a pedestrianized street and browse the shops

Sorrento is famous for lemon cello and its on sale everywhere

Lemon souvenirs are everywhere too

We wander into a cute clothing store to buy me a shirt

I pick out a plain blue linen shirt

My first purchase of the entire trip

We continue wandering down narrow alley ways lined with shops

With just a couple of hours at Sorrento we look for a place to eat lunch

Opting for a pizza place with outdoor seating

Of course we order pizza but also a tasty octopus salad and a delicious ham and melon dish

We engage in our favorite sports of eating and people watching

The walk downhill to the ferry is much quicker than the climb up

We have enough time to drink a refreshing lemon cello spritz

The return ferry is a much bigger twin hull jet boat

Much more stable and a smooth ride back

Thankfully the big lunch stays down

The ferry docks right next to our ship

Within minutes we are back on board

I decide to pack my case as we have to disembark early tomorrow

We learn that there will be a national strike on Italian railroads tomorrow

Our planned train journey to Rome will not be possible

I spend over an hour online trying to book a taxi to take us from the ship to Rome

Eventually the reservation is complete and we can enjoy our last evening on the cruise

Day 10 Sea Day

A welcome break from the daily excursion routine

No need to wake up early today

No agenda

No dashing around all day

No stress of getting back onboard before sailing

Take a long time over breakfast

Recounting the fun we had so far

Swapping photographs and laughing

Chatting with the friendly crew

Learning about their lifestyle

Take a long walk around the ship after breakfast

Find a cosy place to sit on an open deck and watch the water

Listen to the waves

Decompress

Chat to folks nearby

Small talk

Discover where they are from

Swap stories about our traveling adventures

Time passes slowly

No need to plan our meals

Pick up some tasty treats at the cafe

Graze our way through lunch on deck

Food tastes so much better outdoors

That afternoon nap is calling

Wake up refreshed

Watch to water and stare at passing ships

Imagine who is working on that cargo ship

What is it carrying and where is it going

Take a shower and dress for dinner

Stop for a cocktail at the martini bar

Meet some nice people from Florida

Meet some folks from England

Have a wonderful dinner in the restaurant

Skip the show and have an early night

leave the window open

listen to the sounds of the sea

Sleep soundly as the ship rocks gently

Day 7 Istanbul and sea afternoon

With a mid day departure

We decided to stay on the ship today

There are over three thousand passengers aboard this vessel

You would expect it to be crowded

Its just the opposite in fact

There are never any long lines at the bars and restauarants

Lots of open seating on deck and inside

No problem to find a quiet spot to chill

Plenty of activities if you want to play or be entertained

Attentive staff ready to bring you anything you need

The crew work long hours daily for 7 months

They are always smiling though

Feeling blessed to be able to live this lifestyle

Feeling sad for those in the world enduring struggles to survive

I decided to do some research

There are around 350 cruise ships sailing today

With a capacity for 600,000 passengers

8.1 Billion people alive on the planet today

So for every single cruise passenger today

There are 1.6M non-cruising people

That makes me feel like one in a million

Day 9 Athens, Greece

The ship docked early in the port of Piraeus

Unfortunately I had some minor gastric issues that morning

All self induced by over indulging the night before but it settled down by late morning

We decided to skip the sights of Athens and explore the local harbor of Microlimano

There we just a few taxis next to the ship and we asked the driver to take us the Microlimano

He said its a beautiful old harbor with great restaurants but very few tourists go there

He proposed a tour of the main sights in Athens before taking us to Microlimano for lunch at his favorite restaurant

We negotiated a good deal and he drove us into the city and we were pleased that the traffic was not so bad in the middle of the day

Our driver spoke perfect english and gave us a detailed guide of Athens

He parked frequently so we could step out to take pictures of the Panathenaic stadium, theAcropolis and the Parthenon

We did not enter any of these with long lines for tickets but we did get to see the city and the main sights on this drive by tour

Our driver dropped us at Zorba’s restaurant in Microlimano and we got a table overlooking the beautiful old harbor and we arranged for him to pick us up in a couple of hours

We had a delicious lunch of octopus salad, deep fried anchovies, green salad and fresh vegetables

A complimentary limoncello rounded off a memorable lunch

There was still time to stroll around the waterfront and soak up the atmosphere on a beautiful sunny afternoon

Our driver took us back to the ship and he gave us his contact information

He was confident that we would one day return to explore Athens in more detail

We made enough memories in four hours to probably prove him right